SAN JOSE, Calif. – On this final day of practice here at San Jose State University, Kevin O’Connell spent a few minutes prior to today’s session talking with the media.
He became a suddenly pivotal figure for the Patriots this week when the status of starter Matt Cassel was in doubt. But the rookie QB told reporters that his concern for Cassel took precedence.
“More than anything, it’s just been about being there for Matt as a friend and a teammate, at the same time, preparing to play a really good Raiders team. As a team, we’ve just tried to come together, but it doesn’t take much because we are such a close group of guys.”
I asked him what he said to Cassel, whose father died Monday, to help boost his spirits.
“You know, it’s hard,” O’Connell admitted. “We’ve all lost family members, but when it’s something so sudden like that, it hits you in a way you can’t imagine. I couldn’t really speak from experience and a lot of guys can’t. All you can do is say your prayers are with him. I know all of us put our hands out to him and let him know we cared about his situation and we’re going to be there for him no matter what.
“He’s doing really well,” O’Connell continued. “He’s one of the most mentally strong guys I know. I’ve learned a lot from him this season. I saw it as an opportunity to kind of give a little back to him. He’s given me so much this year. I’ve just tried to be around him and be there for him.
“It’s one of those things that you can’t comprehend until it happens to you. It’s such a difficult thing to get through, but he’s a strong, tough guy. I know football’s done him good this week since he’s been back. We’re just going to continue to be there for him.”
When Cassel missed Wednesday’s practice to be with his family, O’Connell took more reps as the temporary starter. But that’s about the only thing that’s changed for O’Connell this week, he said, in terms of his preparation for Oakland.
“I mean, more importantly, every week, I’ve got to be prepared because I am one snap away. It didn’t really change much other than the mental reps turned into being under center and calling the plays and stuff. I’m just focusing on the game plan like I always would.”